Grooming is when you raise someone since they are a child for them to be your partner when they are grown up. Please educate yourself before commenting.
Lmao people be talking about how ML is grooming FL because he’s a great demon who had lived for god knows how long and FL is only in her 20s
Jokes aside, they are all adults, so they can’t be considered grooming.
Grooming is grooming lmao. He’s substantially older than her and there’s a vast difference in the power balance between them, in which he holds most (if not all) of the power in their relationship. Those are like the 2 main things needed to identify a case of grooming.
Grown women can be groomed, too (not always by people who are older than them, but almost always there is apparent power inbalance in the relationship between the victim and the groomer), and if you don’t believe me, look up cases of domestic abuse and cult activity/recruitment.
The trope of “thousand year old man romances 20-something year old woman” has always been problematic imo. Our FL is an adult who can make her own decision though, so no one can say anything about it anyway, especially since there’s been no apparent abuse to her or her emotional state.
I don’t know how demon maturity works so she might be the mental equivalent of 50 or 20 years. If they were human, I’d scream grooming and run, but they live a good thousand years so a century isn’t that big of an age difference in comparison?
another way to think about it is a 20 year-old human is an adult where a 20 year-old demon is an infant … like meowie can be bigger than a ford truck and is a kitten lol
For me grooming and the pedo shit does not apply to none humans lmao. I mean, everyone’s gonna be hella young for them unless they pick someone not human as well. Plus they’re not humans, they have different moral compass
Rowie
Grooming is when you raise someone since they are a child for them to be your partner when they are grown up. Please educate yourself before commenting.
Iamrose
Her grandmother sounds cool
Zegarth_RB
Also isn’t human = not grooming is kind of a fucked up conclusion.
Zegarth_RB
Lmao people be talking about how ML is grooming FL because he’s a great demon who had lived for god knows how long and FL is only in her 20s
Jokes aside, they are all adults, so they can’t be considered grooming.
dormammu
Grooming is grooming lmao. He’s substantially older than her and there’s a vast difference in the power balance between them, in which he holds most (if not all) of the power in their relationship. Those are like the 2 main things needed to identify a case of grooming.
Grown women can be groomed, too (not always by people who are older than them, but almost always there is apparent power inbalance in the relationship between the victim and the groomer), and if you don’t believe me, look up cases of domestic abuse and cult activity/recruitment.
The trope of “thousand year old man romances 20-something year old woman” has always been problematic imo. Our FL is an adult who can make her own decision though, so no one can say anything about it anyway, especially since there’s been no apparent abuse to her or her emotional state.
Mandragora
I don’t know how demon maturity works so she might be the mental equivalent of 50 or 20 years. If they were human, I’d scream grooming and run, but they live a good thousand years so a century isn’t that big of an age difference in comparison?
Bunnybunnies
Grooming or not, both of them arent human💀💀
blahdeblah
another way to think about it is a 20 year-old human is an adult where a 20 year-old demon is an infant … like meowie can be bigger than a ford truck and is a kitten lol
bocomoco
For me grooming and the pedo shit does not apply to none humans lmao. I mean, everyone’s gonna be hella young for them unless they pick someone not human as well. Plus they’re not humans, they have different moral compass
Piiiiiiiii
Aren’t he like 100X older than her? It feels like grooming