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*and this applies to manhwa as well, the utter of diversity is kinda annoying if you know what I mean….and everyone is soo judgemental about how characters look. i have to admit, ive made this mistake before as well….but the again I have like 10 different personalities fighting for control most of the time lol, and they all have different ideas about certain stuff depending on my mood…
I do have to say this: it seems that everyone, expecially in this modern digital age, has a super inflated idea of “beauty” that they judge everyone off of, even when their standered is based off the %0.001.
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Everyone is beautiful, it might not be what this messed up culture considers “pretty” (but heck, “pretty” to them, is 5 pounds of makeup, 15 filters, and photoshopped bodies of starving models….).
Just look at the old paintings and statues where having rolls of fat was considered the ideal, and strong noses were in style. Then to the 1920’s were small petite features were all the craze…..it just shows that people have this dumb habit of every few years picking and choosing which features they like, and demonizing the ones they dont like just so a certain group can feel “special” or smth.
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just because society thinks you don’t fit their stupid idea of “pretty” dosen’t mean you aren’t pretty, it just means you are too special and unique for their pitifuly small tiktok filled brains to handle!
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I say this to both men and women because I think people now days focus too much on looks rather than character. I. A world of people who are trying to look the same, dare to be different ^^
Hey, I made an account to reply to you. I’m something of a scientist myself.
Also, used to be a perv.
‘True’ Love is work, a common goal, friendship and a commitment to moving forward together, and holding eachother accountable for their own actions, essentially becoming responsible both for yourself, and your partner. And most of all, it’s care.
Hormones are real, and if youve been around some attractive sweaty men at a club or smth, you’ll quickly notice your attraction to them growing. Part of nature that, to respond to potentially a good mate.
As a man that’s calmed down from my wildest days, attraction is cheap.
Things love isnt: An impulse.
Attraction is a response. Some times, it’s planned. (Think when a woman asks a man to buy her flowers, but not today or tomorrow, because he’d be doing it on her terms, in leau of his own, therefore there is no ‘impulse’ to do something for her, it’sinstead a chore, or a duty. Which is why men become confused on this. )
I’m assuming you’re a woman, so, have you ever smelled a mans fresh sweat or smth similar? You’re also able to perceive, but not immediately recognize pheromone activity.
It’s a little annoying as a man if I’m interested in a woman that isnt in my vicinity, those women that are notice my disinterest/confidence (due to liking sm1 else.)
More accurately, they see me as something to gain attention from (not in a bad way.) It’s more like the way when someone you care about is giving you oneworders, and you get the urge to nag, like, “hello?” “Y u no respond” etc. This is all natural, but some people have different approaches.
Back to why it’s annoying. Fucking PHEROMONES dude.
I’m talking w a friend, horny drunk woman walks by, her pheromones activate my response systems, and I’m forced to stare at her.
(See this scene in your head?^^ The intense ‘I need you, now’ look.)
Some ppl have no idea that/ or why this is going on, so they end up assuming everyone (opp. Sex) is the same. As you can imagine, this is due to lack of education, hormones, and impulsivity.
Now, mix that with factors such as environment, surround yourself with people of this behaviour type, lack of critical thinking, matter over mind, consuming instead of producing, and you’ve suddenly got addicts.
“Useless” men that have little virtue. Some of them are great guys. But they’re pervs.
And, yes. I used to be a perv. Still am, but I used to be too.
Maybe you’ve never experienced having another person of the opposite sex, or someone you care about- give you a heartwarming compliment, or a flirty comment.
Like, hell yeah I want you to slap my ass. I’mma pretend I dont like it when you do it though, so I can keep my dignity.
Alas, it’s difficult, but NEVER impossible to meet someone that just shocks you. And then testing the waters through all this awkwardness that is getting to know one another, seeing if you want smth else. But this topic is incredibly broad, and I can only type so much, for now.
I’m glad to see your comments around. I love it when people draft their thoughts on topics within shared media.
With this, you can see that establishing such a relationship on shallow grounds, or a flimsy foundation such as simple attraction is not a long term solution. As, attraction fades, or at the very least, needs to be maintained.
Now, mix that maintenance with short-form addictions, quick happy pills (this was a scare through the 90s, 00s, with medicinal happiness), lack of restraint, self-control, drugs (alcohol, weed mainly.), maintaining your relationship suddenly becomes very difficult when times get rough.
PsychoPrincess
*and this applies to manhwa as well, the utter of diversity is kinda annoying if you know what I mean….and everyone is soo judgemental about how characters look. i have to admit, ive made this mistake before as well….but the again I have like 10 different personalities fighting for control most of the time lol, and they all have different ideas about certain stuff depending on my mood…
PsychoPrincess
I do have to say this: it seems that everyone, expecially in this modern digital age, has a super inflated idea of “beauty” that they judge everyone off of, even when their standered is based off the %0.001.
.
Everyone is beautiful, it might not be what this messed up culture considers “pretty” (but heck, “pretty” to them, is 5 pounds of makeup, 15 filters, and photoshopped bodies of starving models….).
Just look at the old paintings and statues where having rolls of fat was considered the ideal, and strong noses were in style. Then to the 1920’s were small petite features were all the craze…..it just shows that people have this dumb habit of every few years picking and choosing which features they like, and demonizing the ones they dont like just so a certain group can feel “special” or smth.
.
just because society thinks you don’t fit their stupid idea of “pretty” dosen’t mean you aren’t pretty, it just means you are too special and unique for their pitifuly small tiktok filled brains to handle!
.
I say this to both men and women because I think people now days focus too much on looks rather than character. I. A world of people who are trying to look the same, dare to be different ^^
Pauliepus
Hey, I made an account to reply to you. I’m something of a scientist myself.
Also, used to be a perv.
‘True’ Love is work, a common goal, friendship and a commitment to moving forward together, and holding eachother accountable for their own actions, essentially becoming responsible both for yourself, and your partner. And most of all, it’s care.
Hormones are real, and if youve been around some attractive sweaty men at a club or smth, you’ll quickly notice your attraction to them growing. Part of nature that, to respond to potentially a good mate.
As a man that’s calmed down from my wildest days, attraction is cheap.
Things love isnt: An impulse.
Attraction is a response. Some times, it’s planned. (Think when a woman asks a man to buy her flowers, but not today or tomorrow, because he’d be doing it on her terms, in leau of his own, therefore there is no ‘impulse’ to do something for her, it’sinstead a chore, or a duty. Which is why men become confused on this. )
I’m assuming you’re a woman, so, have you ever smelled a mans fresh sweat or smth similar? You’re also able to perceive, but not immediately recognize pheromone activity.
It’s a little annoying as a man if I’m interested in a woman that isnt in my vicinity, those women that are notice my disinterest/confidence (due to liking sm1 else.)
More accurately, they see me as something to gain attention from (not in a bad way.) It’s more like the way when someone you care about is giving you oneworders, and you get the urge to nag, like, “hello?” “Y u no respond” etc. This is all natural, but some people have different approaches.
Back to why it’s annoying. Fucking PHEROMONES dude.
I’m talking w a friend, horny drunk woman walks by, her pheromones activate my response systems, and I’m forced to stare at her.
(See this scene in your head?^^ The intense ‘I need you, now’ look.)
Some ppl have no idea that/ or why this is going on, so they end up assuming everyone (opp. Sex) is the same. As you can imagine, this is due to lack of education, hormones, and impulsivity.
Now, mix that with factors such as environment, surround yourself with people of this behaviour type, lack of critical thinking, matter over mind, consuming instead of producing, and you’ve suddenly got addicts.
“Useless” men that have little virtue. Some of them are great guys. But they’re pervs.
And, yes. I used to be a perv. Still am, but I used to be too.
Maybe you’ve never experienced having another person of the opposite sex, or someone you care about- give you a heartwarming compliment, or a flirty comment.
Like, hell yeah I want you to slap my ass. I’mma pretend I dont like it when you do it though, so I can keep my dignity.
Alas, it’s difficult, but NEVER impossible to meet someone that just shocks you. And then testing the waters through all this awkwardness that is getting to know one another, seeing if you want smth else. But this topic is incredibly broad, and I can only type so much, for now.
I’m glad to see your comments around. I love it when people draft their thoughts on topics within shared media.
With this, you can see that establishing such a relationship on shallow grounds, or a flimsy foundation such as simple attraction is not a long term solution. As, attraction fades, or at the very least, needs to be maintained.
Now, mix that maintenance with short-form addictions, quick happy pills (this was a scare through the 90s, 00s, with medicinal happiness), lack of restraint, self-control, drugs (alcohol, weed mainly.), maintaining your relationship suddenly becomes very difficult when times get rough.
Hope you read this. Bye.