The author is really trying to bring FL and ML back by holding her responsible for things she’s not responsible for, making her feel guilty so she can crawl back to ml… 🤦♀️
And let’s be real—this story isn’t about painting the ML as some flawless hero. It’s about complex, flawed characters dealing with pain, regret, and redemption. If the FL chooses to go back, it’s because she sees something worth saving, not because the author is forcing her to. You can disagree with the direction, but calling it “pathetic” just ignores the emotional depth of the story.
This part is so stupid. The author is trying to throw blame at Annette for abandoning him and not trying enough. Bullshit!!!
It was Heiner’s responsibility to talk first about his past. No one’s else.
Annette always loved him. Meanwhile, he was an obsessed paranoid abusive freak.
Girlie, the FL will always be the MVP for me. Imagine holding onto her kindness despite being shunned by the world, betrayed by the one person she trusted the most, and even losing her child. If I were her, I’d resent the ML so much—but she’s different. She chose to be the bigger person, not just for herself but for both of them, so they could heal and be happy together. I LOVE YOU, FL! <3
@Spring and Summer Letting down her pride and choosing to communicate isn’t stupidity—it’s strength. The real problem between them was miscommunication, not just the ML’s poor assumptions. In real life, relationships break down because people refuse to talk, letting their pride get in the way. FL didn’t just forgive blindly; she confronted the issue head-on. That takes more courage than holding a grudge ever will.
@charcasm,
That’s not letting down your pride. And it wasn’t Annette’s pride that ended the relationship!
She gave Heiner plenty of opportunities to “make things right” even after he killed her parents and emotionally abused her.
If someone had to communicate, that was Heiner. No one else. But he was a mentally ill paranoid abuser and a coward. And he still hasn’t done anything to deserve Annette’s sympathy.
And it’s disgusting how the author is having Annette take the blame for ML’s poor actions just so Annette can crawl back to her abusive ex. Pathetic.
@ Spring and Summer Babe, I wasn’t saying that her pride ended the relationship. I don’t even know how you comprehended that from what I said. I was clearly talking about the relationship *after* they were already apart. They’re divorced, and I never pardoned his actions. This is about Annette’s mentality.
The point here is that the author wrote her this way, so we should put ourselves in *her* shoes. How the hell could she move on? She would never have peace the way you’re thinking because that isn’t how Annette was written.
Yes, Heiner was the one who needed to communicate, and yes, he was a cowardly, paranoid abuser who didn’t deserve her sympathy. No one is excusing that. But Annette wasn’t talking to him *for his sake*—she was doing it for *herself*. Holding onto unresolved emotions wouldn’t bring her peace, and knowing the truth without confronting him would only leave her with lingering what-ifs. That’s not weakness, nor is it letting Heiner off the hook. It’s about *her* closure, not his redemption.
Annette lowered her pride by facing Heiner despite knowing she did nothing wrong. The pride I was referring to wasn’t about submission but about choosing to confront the past despite having every reason not to. She clearly knew Heiner was too broken and irrational to initiate communication—it was never going to be him because he was sick in the head, and Annette understood that. Instead of waiting for the impossible, she took control of the situation herselff.
Spring and Summer
The author is really trying to bring FL and ML back by holding her responsible for things she’s not responsible for, making her feel guilty so she can crawl back to ml… 🤦♀️
Pathetic
SanchP
And let’s be real—this story isn’t about painting the ML as some flawless hero. It’s about complex, flawed characters dealing with pain, regret, and redemption. If the FL chooses to go back, it’s because she sees something worth saving, not because the author is forcing her to. You can disagree with the direction, but calling it “pathetic” just ignores the emotional depth of the story.
Spring and Summer
This part is so stupid. The author is trying to throw blame at Annette for abandoning him and not trying enough. Bullshit!!!
It was Heiner’s responsibility to talk first about his past. No one’s else.
Annette always loved him. Meanwhile, he was an obsessed paranoid abusive freak.
Palicel
I actually thought her hand was cut off so I was surprised that her hand was intact while knitting but ig that wasn’t the case
Saniadey
Yes please talk for god’s sake 🙏🏻
Yourmanhwachingu
@charcasm totally agree with youuuu
charcasm
Girlie, the FL will always be the MVP for me. Imagine holding onto her kindness despite being shunned by the world, betrayed by the one person she trusted the most, and even losing her child. If I were her, I’d resent the ML so much—but she’s different. She chose to be the bigger person, not just for herself but for both of them, so they could heal and be happy together. I LOVE YOU, FL! <3
Spring and Summer
That’s not being “the bigger person”, that’s called stupidity. At least in real life.
charcasm
@Spring and Summer Letting down her pride and choosing to communicate isn’t stupidity—it’s strength. The real problem between them was miscommunication, not just the ML’s poor assumptions. In real life, relationships break down because people refuse to talk, letting their pride get in the way. FL didn’t just forgive blindly; she confronted the issue head-on. That takes more courage than holding a grudge ever will.
charcasm
she would never be at peace if she didn’t talk to Heiner after learning the truth about him. ll. (Though I still don’t like Heiner.)
Spring and Summer
@charcasm,
That’s not letting down your pride. And it wasn’t Annette’s pride that ended the relationship!
She gave Heiner plenty of opportunities to “make things right” even after he killed her parents and emotionally abused her.
If someone had to communicate, that was Heiner. No one else. But he was a mentally ill paranoid abuser and a coward. And he still hasn’t done anything to deserve Annette’s sympathy.
And it’s disgusting how the author is having Annette take the blame for ML’s poor actions just so Annette can crawl back to her abusive ex. Pathetic.
charcasm
@ Spring and Summer Babe, I wasn’t saying that her pride ended the relationship. I don’t even know how you comprehended that from what I said. I was clearly talking about the relationship *after* they were already apart. They’re divorced, and I never pardoned his actions. This is about Annette’s mentality.
The point here is that the author wrote her this way, so we should put ourselves in *her* shoes. How the hell could she move on? She would never have peace the way you’re thinking because that isn’t how Annette was written.
Yes, Heiner was the one who needed to communicate, and yes, he was a cowardly, paranoid abuser who didn’t deserve her sympathy. No one is excusing that. But Annette wasn’t talking to him *for his sake*—she was doing it for *herself*. Holding onto unresolved emotions wouldn’t bring her peace, and knowing the truth without confronting him would only leave her with lingering what-ifs. That’s not weakness, nor is it letting Heiner off the hook. It’s about *her* closure, not his redemption.
charcasm
Annette lowered her pride by facing Heiner despite knowing she did nothing wrong. The pride I was referring to wasn’t about submission but about choosing to confront the past despite having every reason not to. She clearly knew Heiner was too broken and irrational to initiate communication—it was never going to be him because he was sick in the head, and Annette understood that. Instead of waiting for the impossible, she took control of the situation herselff.
charcasm
This is not about compromising for Heiner—it’s about Annette taking control of her own healing
charcasm
STILL WE BOTH AGREED TO THE FACT THAT HEINER WAS A PIECE OF SHIT. PERIODT!!!