I would think being alone with someone that you and your partner trust is fine.
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However, in the case of being alone with someone who is not trusted by you or your spouse/loved one, it is not okay. If one person in the relationship doesn’t trust someone, talk about what it is they dont trust about the other. Try to see from their perspective.
If they still dont trust that person, do respect that and put their mind at ease by not being alone with whoever they are suspicious of.
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And of course, when it comes to people you dont know very well (raven), dont ever be alone with them until you and your partner know them more. Still safer to have another person that you trust in the room tho until you fully trust them.
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This is just what ive learned while being in a relationship, and not all relationships are the same! talk to whoever you’re seeing to find out what makes them feel safe and at ease. Healthy relationships are the best.
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Also sorry if it doesn’t make much sense, im not great at putting my thoughts into words
I kind of hate this trope now, “You’re not a substitute” or “You’re someone on your own, don’t compare yourself to the one who looks similar to you” and the dude becomes obsessed with the girl because of her view. That’s literally what ANYONE would say if only Raven speaks up to them about his feelings like that.
And he’s freaking creepy, going after a married woman who seems to like her husband. If you didn’t have a normal life, that doesn’t mean you can take away others normal life…
@Nan_123 correct! He’s there. I was making general statements.:
1. Spend time with ✅
2. Be alone with
3. Show interest in ✅
I was also reading like 10 other manwha at the same time other fML were doing same thing… 😆 it was getting frustrating, now they got this mass drama/misunderstanding all over the place. But if they set up good guidelines no confusion would occur… but fr bro is mad sus… 🚩
I stand by my final point… her showing too much interest in him *could* (and seemingly has) make him interested in her… which then causes tension, misunderstanding, irl make king not trust waifu and w this context, the king killing his own bro for “pursuing a married woman”. Why is that? Bc she showed interest in him (genuinely being nice… sure)… but when women show interest in men, it typically makes the men feel “wanted” thus they misinterpret kindness w advances… then leads to drama. So MC shows interest in bros clothes and is alone w him… makes bro think she likes him OR makes him begin to be interested in her… which then leads to drama which then leads to a king having to kill his bro. Just how it goes
@ Spring and Summer and @ dapperlady you people gotta read. Literally said “alone” 🤦♂️ and if that’s “toxic” then I’ll take it. And it’s not saying you can’t be “friendly” or “know guys”… but you should never exclusively see another guy… ever. Simple as that. Ide say the same thing for a guy to a girl… a man in a relationship should never be alone w a woman or too friendly w her… only breeds confusion and instills insecurities in your spouse.
Trust me. Happily married… been for years. And this topic has never been brought up in our relationship bc healthy relationships instinctually set up “healthy boundaries” to show love and faithfulness to one another.
What I’m stating are absolute facts. If you set up healthy boundaries to never be alone w opposite sex (regardless of your gender) when you are in a committed relationship, you only have things to GAIN… nothing to lose.
It’s not toxic mentality by any means, it’s a healthy one that sets up success. You go on and continue to breed confusion, and allow opportunities to impact your relationship 😉 I’ll continue to grow and flourish my hyper healthy and beautiful relationship. I don’t even need to use psychology, facts, statistics or anything lol let alone, culture, beliefs morals and virtues. Every true category outside of “my present feeling and not like being restricted” are on my side…
This truth only aids to healthy relationships… communication, trust, faith and Fidelity… which also encourages intimacy, communication and security.
But being alone w the opposite sex, close to them often… overly friendly etc… brings what? Give me the pros of that vs the cons. I’ll honestly love to hear that.
Also, cmon now, context of this chap, bro def sus and she obviously just led him on (indirectly)… even this manwha is on my side 😆
That can go both way and your statement are right and wrong at the same time. You can spend time with another man but not “alone” like this, that just doesn’t feel right
@STS
That’s called a toxic relationship if a woman can’t have any other male relations without her partner being jealous and misunderstanding on their own. That shows their emotionally immature which is true for most MLS but it’s not the FLs problem. I will say they do tend to hold back on communication with their partner for some reason which has usually feeds the already ill conceived misunderstandings
lol they showed her feet and I thought she pee’d herself 😂😂 LOL he’s probably looking crazy because he’s falling for his brothers wife and he cant have her or anything he has really
When will these fML get a clue to not spend time with other men, be alone with, or show interest in other men that are not their husbands… it’ll only lead to confusion on all parts, and then make dude want ya and husband upset and do what he has to do to protect what’s his…
Literally her meddling could make the king kill his bro.
Heh boy don’t underestimate XX chromosome we’re very good at seperating colours 😗(am not racist)
Also homeboy changed his attitude so fast i knew he was sus 🤧
Sora! (average scaramouche simp)
I would think being alone with someone that you and your partner trust is fine.
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However, in the case of being alone with someone who is not trusted by you or your spouse/loved one, it is not okay. If one person in the relationship doesn’t trust someone, talk about what it is they dont trust about the other. Try to see from their perspective.
If they still dont trust that person, do respect that and put their mind at ease by not being alone with whoever they are suspicious of.
–
And of course, when it comes to people you dont know very well (raven), dont ever be alone with them until you and your partner know them more. Still safer to have another person that you trust in the room tho until you fully trust them.
–
This is just what ive learned while being in a relationship, and not all relationships are the same! talk to whoever you’re seeing to find out what makes them feel safe and at ease. Healthy relationships are the best.
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Also sorry if it doesn’t make much sense, im not great at putting my thoughts into words
trucksama
its called obsession
he wants everything that was supposed to be his ( that’s his delulu) but yea
sunsun
that escalated real quick💀
Yona-chan
I kind of hate this trope now, “You’re not a substitute” or “You’re someone on your own, don’t compare yourself to the one who looks similar to you” and the dude becomes obsessed with the girl because of her view. That’s literally what ANYONE would say if only Raven speaks up to them about his feelings like that.
And he’s freaking creepy, going after a married woman who seems to like her husband. If you didn’t have a normal life, that doesn’t mean you can take away others normal life…
S-t-S
@Tirzah #legend. Keep your standards high! You’ll find him!
Tirzah
@dapperlady It’s not a toxic relationship. Honesty I’d wish to have a husband like that. He’s just doting over her. It’s not toxic at all
S-t-S
@Nan_123 correct! He’s there. I was making general statements.:
1. Spend time with ✅
2. Be alone with
3. Show interest in ✅
I was also reading like 10 other manwha at the same time other fML were doing same thing… 😆 it was getting frustrating, now they got this mass drama/misunderstanding all over the place. But if they set up good guidelines no confusion would occur… but fr bro is mad sus… 🚩
Nan_123
I think she not just alone with the bro, did u forget the tailor still there
S-t-S
I stand by my final point… her showing too much interest in him *could* (and seemingly has) make him interested in her… which then causes tension, misunderstanding, irl make king not trust waifu and w this context, the king killing his own bro for “pursuing a married woman”. Why is that? Bc she showed interest in him (genuinely being nice… sure)… but when women show interest in men, it typically makes the men feel “wanted” thus they misinterpret kindness w advances… then leads to drama. So MC shows interest in bros clothes and is alone w him… makes bro think she likes him OR makes him begin to be interested in her… which then leads to drama which then leads to a king having to kill his bro. Just how it goes
S-t-S
@ Spring and Summer and @ dapperlady you people gotta read. Literally said “alone” 🤦♂️ and if that’s “toxic” then I’ll take it. And it’s not saying you can’t be “friendly” or “know guys”… but you should never exclusively see another guy… ever. Simple as that. Ide say the same thing for a guy to a girl… a man in a relationship should never be alone w a woman or too friendly w her… only breeds confusion and instills insecurities in your spouse.
Trust me. Happily married… been for years. And this topic has never been brought up in our relationship bc healthy relationships instinctually set up “healthy boundaries” to show love and faithfulness to one another.
What I’m stating are absolute facts. If you set up healthy boundaries to never be alone w opposite sex (regardless of your gender) when you are in a committed relationship, you only have things to GAIN… nothing to lose.
It’s not toxic mentality by any means, it’s a healthy one that sets up success. You go on and continue to breed confusion, and allow opportunities to impact your relationship 😉 I’ll continue to grow and flourish my hyper healthy and beautiful relationship. I don’t even need to use psychology, facts, statistics or anything lol let alone, culture, beliefs morals and virtues. Every true category outside of “my present feeling and not like being restricted” are on my side…
This truth only aids to healthy relationships… communication, trust, faith and Fidelity… which also encourages intimacy, communication and security.
But being alone w the opposite sex, close to them often… overly friendly etc… brings what? Give me the pros of that vs the cons. I’ll honestly love to hear that.
Also, cmon now, context of this chap, bro def sus and she obviously just led him on (indirectly)… even this manwha is on my side 😆
Spring and Summer
@S-t-S
That’s stupid toxic mentality. Have you ever been in real relationship or are you just trolling on the internet?
thucdoan2010
That can go both way and your statement are right and wrong at the same time. You can spend time with another man but not “alone” like this, that just doesn’t feel right
dapperlady
@STS
That’s called a toxic relationship if a woman can’t have any other male relations without her partner being jealous and misunderstanding on their own. That shows their emotionally immature which is true for most MLS but it’s not the FLs problem. I will say they do tend to hold back on communication with their partner for some reason which has usually feeds the already ill conceived misunderstandings
PsychoPrincess
You saw the real him girl…
randombookloverr
Raven did a full 180 in a matter of seconds omg
Rococochoco
lol they showed her feet and I thought she pee’d herself 😂😂 LOL he’s probably looking crazy because he’s falling for his brothers wife and he cant have her or anything he has really
S-t-S
When will these fML get a clue to not spend time with other men, be alone with, or show interest in other men that are not their husbands… it’ll only lead to confusion on all parts, and then make dude want ya and husband upset and do what he has to do to protect what’s his…
Literally her meddling could make the king kill his bro.
Usachan
Yandere allert 🚨
Rum Lawrence
Heh boy don’t underestimate XX chromosome we’re very good at seperating colours 😗(am not racist)
Also homeboy changed his attitude so fast i knew he was sus 🤧
Tokioki
ominous aura = red flag alert🚨🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩