@Lightning-Kun IDK I think she’s doing the smart and mature thing (before it’s revealed that she’s a regressor/transmigrator/whatever and was only leaving because she felt obligated to.
Being around the child without loving him or forcing a marriage to last just because there’s a kid is so damaging to them. This kid’s going to grow up in a stable household with a parent who loves him rather than a cold house with fighting.
@Ladybug91 You know yourself best. If you think you’re not going to be able to raise a child, don’t let yourself get talked into it. Not only could this ruin the child’s life, it could also hurt your relationship irreparably.
Raising a child is more than simply being good with kids or being able to provide for them. If you aren’t 100% sold on it, hold back. You could always change your mind later, but you can’t undo having the baby.
I sometimes wonder if I’d be like her….my bf wants a child more than anything but I don’t rele. I consider giving him one anyways but wonder if I would be happy, give it love. Ppl always think I’d be a great mom but that’s cuz they don’t rele know me.
but from this chap she seems a massive bitch do you think a child is joke? some ppl shouldn’t be parents when they can’t even fulfill that role, so do u now feel emotion after doing all that? her husband clearly holds her dear but yea this is first chap I don’t feel good about the child but gotta see how things come to this point….
MiscMech
@Lightning-Kun IDK I think she’s doing the smart and mature thing (before it’s revealed that she’s a regressor/transmigrator/whatever and was only leaving because she felt obligated to.
Being around the child without loving him or forcing a marriage to last just because there’s a kid is so damaging to them. This kid’s going to grow up in a stable household with a parent who loves him rather than a cold house with fighting.
MiscMech
@Ladybug91 You know yourself best. If you think you’re not going to be able to raise a child, don’t let yourself get talked into it. Not only could this ruin the child’s life, it could also hurt your relationship irreparably.
Raising a child is more than simply being good with kids or being able to provide for them. If you aren’t 100% sold on it, hold back. You could always change your mind later, but you can’t undo having the baby.
Ladybug91
I sometimes wonder if I’d be like her….my bf wants a child more than anything but I don’t rele. I consider giving him one anyways but wonder if I would be happy, give it love. Ppl always think I’d be a great mom but that’s cuz they don’t rele know me.
Lightning-Kun
but from this chap she seems a massive bitch do you think a child is joke? some ppl shouldn’t be parents when they can’t even fulfill that role, so do u now feel emotion after doing all that? her husband clearly holds her dear but yea this is first chap I don’t feel good about the child but gotta see how things come to this point….
star vs the forces of evil
Post partum depression is real and calling your wife names isn’t gonna make it better…
Goaties
Sure, but that clearly isn’t what’s going on here…