Sometimes it needs a push from the other side as well. If he can tell that their relationship started with lies, he can acknowledge that and also tell her and reassure her that from what her personality is like, she is a good person and he likely won’t kick her out unless she has done something horrifically wrong or plans on doing terrible things.
Giving her time to open up is one thing, but reassurances is the other thing that is needed. She can’t be sure she’ll lose everything in an instant still, so of course she will hesitate.
Ugh, just tell him! I hate when they try to justify not telling the truth when given the opportunity! He won’t hate you or kick you out, he’ll likely be impressed you managed to find a way to survive and adapt.
Red225
Sometimes it needs a push from the other side as well. If he can tell that their relationship started with lies, he can acknowledge that and also tell her and reassure her that from what her personality is like, she is a good person and he likely won’t kick her out unless she has done something horrifically wrong or plans on doing terrible things.
Giving her time to open up is one thing, but reassurances is the other thing that is needed. She can’t be sure she’ll lose everything in an instant still, so of course she will hesitate.
nymeriawolfe
Ugh, just tell him! I hate when they try to justify not telling the truth when given the opportunity! He won’t hate you or kick you out, he’ll likely be impressed you managed to find a way to survive and adapt.